My question is,when do you think life starts,do you think it starts when the sperm meets the egg or when the baby is born out of the womb,

To me life begins when the sperm meets the egg,the life start's from there,do we really believe,the start of a life can think,dream,breath,cry,or even a little smile,and laugh,and listen,

in that little life,do you think what is it going to be when it grows up,is it going to be a music star or a movie star.or how about a lawyer or a doctor and police officer or a fire fighter,what ever you think of what you future baby is going to be,and it doesn't become what you wanted it to be,but your still happy for the life you gave,

in the world we live in now,you think how can i bring up a baby in this hard life we have now,but you still try your hardest to make shure that life is going to survive in this world we live in,with all your love and caring and watching out for that life.

Today is a sad day for me and my wife,we lost our 8 week old baby today,
the reason for the lost of the baby,my wife got a air born virus from her job,due to these corporate giants doing there cut backs on employee safety supplies,she was only allowed 1 dust mask a day,in the place she works,it is very hot.after 1 hour,the dust mask was soaked with sweat.she took it off,then got this virus,made her very sick to her stomach,the virus will go away after 2 weeks,but my baby will never come back.

rest in peace MINH (9-12-08)

your's trully
nunu

sorry to hear , we share your though and pray.

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I'm sorry for your lost nunu, and as conmeo and yourself, I wish your baby to rest in peace. I as well think that life starts when the egg meets the sperm, and cell division takes place, that is where the miracle of life begins it's journey. I'm not sure if you believe in God, but as I am a catholic, we believe that babies who die before they are born, or grow old, are saints because their souls are pure and untainted. I hope your wife the best of health, and hope that she gets well very soon.

-Oanh

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life is that, make you happy -> disappoint -> cry -> sad. I feel sorry for you and every mothers who lose their child. Life appear like the new stars in the sky and disappear just like a shooting star, well that is how we live and life cycle running. Don't be too sad for it, make your way happier by think positive ways like you have many friends who can share your situation at the moment. I know how they feel when they lose their child, my parents sell coffins in VN. I saw many children, they were died after they were born. The mothers and fathers usually just look at their baby with the sad face, eye looking at nowhere, no souls in their eye; maybe they were looking for their child's in somewhere like on the black sky at night. It was raining just like sorry for their lost. But after 2-3 weeks, they come back to life just like normal. I think because they recoginzed life is very hard, human can not handle and change everything well release something and receive something. Don't be panic nunu be happy with your life, make life happier by taking caring of the next bayby. Don't be disturbed while driving truck or doing your job. Life is long, don't worry. Lost this one means we will win another one. That how we want life to be!!!

DK

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This is a sad story
I know this happend with my best friend either.

Dk its not that easy like you said to get a new child.
This is a serious problem.
its alot of work to keep the baby while its not born yet.
They are already sad its not that easy to get a new.

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Im watching you so be good

Sorry for your loss, my sympathy is with your family at this most difficult time.

It is really sad what happened. Any thought of taking legal action to the company? You may want to consult lawyer, may be there is something to fight!

i want to thank all of you for your sympathy,it is a hard thing to go through,but in the long run,we still have 1 daughter who is 3 now,the wife See's the doctor on Monday to see if she can still have anymore children,i will be seeing the lawyer on Monday too,

thank you everybody for your thoughts,
yours truly nunu

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Thx 4 share ur story w/ us, it's truly sad and best wishes to u & ur family; hope ur wife will recover emotionally as well as physically soon. We r here 4 ya, buddy.