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so it was good and he come back for more , after playing around. but you said THEY , same rules apply. just make sure this is no ( booty call ).

start from the beginning again for this relationship, dont pick up where you left off if YOU want this relationship to work.

After all , This is NO true love if you ask me ( but hey, you did not ask me.so this big mouth is shuting )

Sorry to hear about your NOT so true LOVE , storry.

but after all , what do i know? i am just watching science fiction, actions, fantasy,comedy,animate....HATE LIFFETIME CHANNEL and it so girly movies.

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so long and thank for the good time in VF

The answer is nope, not in a million year, no way josé, hell nooooooooooo!!! The only what's the answer is because ... I don't see anywhere on ur story has the part where there's a ... uhm ... break-up (just kidding).
Ok, let's get serious, shall we? Lots of time ppl tend to fight over the littlest thing. It's always good to identify the source of the problem and find out how or where does the fight begin with. Sometimes, when ppl try 2 trace back the source, they don't even know y the fight started in 1st place. There's a say, chuyện lớn hóa nhỏ, chuyện nhỏ hóa không; since it starts outta pretty much nothing anyway, right?
However, if it involves something as serious a marriage, it could be quite complicated. Involving in marriage can varies in couple of situations; one wants 2 get marry & the other don't? The other person is already in a marriage? Like I said earlier, problem has to b recognize 2 be able to comes up w/ the best solution. However, we don't really know what kinna marriage problem u r implying about.
But then, the ultimate question u should be asking is how do u c u & the other person in 5 yrs, 10 yrs, will he/she be part of ur life? If u don't c him/her there, then might as well as cut it off even if there's no problem at all; cái này gợi là vô cực sinh thái cực, thái cực sinh tứ tượng, tứ tượng sinh lưỡng nghi ... and so on, in another word, create problem even when there's none (jk)

my answer would be hit the road jack never come back,broke your heart once it will happen again,first time broken heart is easy to get over with,the second time is harder to get over it,i would say no,if the begging start's don't fall for it,like oh i will change,yea right it's just a suck up measure,like the fake tears,oh give me a break,don't fall for this,it's just a game they play,,i mean no insult to the other people,

What was the reason for the separation in the first place ? Would that cause likely happen again ? ... and would the couple separate again ? If the answers are yes and yes, then I would say let it gone with the wind.

My 2 cents.

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Get well soon, Jess.

Given not too much detail, all I can say is that:

It will be depend on what happened between back then and now! But you should know with your feeling so you can go with it. Seem to be more than one person here, so there are probably a choice to be made among them.

BAD:
If that person left you and you felt hurt a lot from past separation then the suggestion is not to go back again with that person. Heart broken from a break up leaves a life-time scar, such wound will not be easy healed and forgiven so it is clear that will be evident not to look for an answer. A broken bowl has pieces which can not be fixed, what is broken is broken, fixing it opens it more severe wounds and it would be then too late. Betrayal does hurt deeply and probably does not deserve even second chance.

MAYBE:
But if it is not the case like that person did not leave you for reason I can think of as living far away from you and now decided firmly to live near you. Relationship even long distance relationship does communicate and both of the parties should be aware of the status quo to decide what to do the next step.

Personally, I will get back with that person only if I truly love that person and for the reasons described that probably you can only know yourself.

But is it enough to go for marriage? While this seems to be first thing and widely rejected if it is a sudden come back without any reason and getting in touch, it does not mean that it could not work if both of parties feel the perfect match.

But think of it as a love test which that person realizes that the only true person he loves is you after separated from you assuming with good terms and both of you somehow have always ongoing stay communicated. Hard to answer when there is no detail of inputs and each of us seems to imagine more the reasons to give the outcomes. Asian culture is a little bit different since long relationship seem to work better for marriage than short ones leading to fast divorce. Man, it was a hard one to answer! lol

But you should ask yourself if you truly loves that person and how much he loves you as how much to wait more time for marriage like a year til you are sure and ready. Good luck to whomever is dealing with this situation!

To Psy: Psy nói sai 1 câu : Thái cực sinh lưỡng nghi, lưỡng nghi sinh tứ tượng, tứ tượng sinh bát quái...

To Porky :
Có sự trở lại nào
Không kèm theo mất mát
Như tình tôi yêu người
Kiếp sau còn chua xót
( thơ Du Tử Lê )

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